I’ve a huge problem. I’ve been told it’s my voice. When I speak, I speak like I’m issuing orders. When I’m requesting something – it sounds like I’m commanding. My casual discussions sound like arguments. My friendly suggestions sound like ‘solutions for faults in people’.
I think it’s about my voice modulation. If anyone wants to believe me, I am a perfectly normal human who does not want to hurt anyone. In fact, I think I’d be wasting my own important time hurting others. I don’t know the original of this ‘natural arrogance’ in me.When I laugh, it’s louder than normal humans. When I speak, my voice is louder than normal. I’d have been a politician and never needed a microphone. But that’s how my vocal box is. It’s natural. 99.99% of the times, I don’t even know that I’m louder.
Am I really arrogant? Yes it’s true that I think everyone is idiot, but that includes me as well. I’m an idiot in many situations, but I make it a point not to repeat my mistakes. I’d repeat my mistakes twice, but not thrice. I get annoyed to see people with zilch common sense.
How do I fix myself?